HER – Full Review (New Zealand, 2025)
Updated . Independent editorial; partner links marked “Visit”.
- Best for: Queer women and non-binary community
- Age sweet spot: 18-40
- Coverage (NZ): Stronger in major cities with active groups
- Safety: Community moderation, report and block tools
- App Store (NZ): low-to-mid 4s out of 5 overall
- Google Play: high 3s to low 4s out of 5 overall
HER blends dating with community via events, groups and local news. In NZ it is a welcoming space for queer women and non-binary people who want connection beyond pure swiping.
Key features (NZ)
Core
- Inclusive profiles with prompts and interests
- Groups and local event discovery
- Feed and community updates
- Report and block options
Paid perks
- Read receipts and advanced filters
- Boosted visibility
- More likes and daily actions
Strengths and trade-offs
Strengths
- Community-first vibe and events
- Good complement to Hinge or Bumble
- Inclusive onboarding and options
Trade-offs
- Smaller pools than mainstream apps
- Quieter in smaller towns
- Best features on paid tiers
Pricing in New Zealand – guide
| Plan | Monthly (NZD) | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Premium tiers | Varies by age & market | Read receipts, boosts, extra filters. |
Tip: join two local groups and attend an event to expand connections quickly.
Safety and privacy
- Use in-app report for boundary issues
- Public first meets; share itinerary
- Keep contact details private until trust builds
Loveify verdict
A welcoming NZ space for queer women and non-binary folks. Pair with Hinge or Bumble if you want a larger dating pool alongside community.