A = (S + F + P) × R + C − X
The Loveify Attraction Formula
Human attraction is not random. It follows patterns. The Loveify Attraction Formula brings together the six
strongest forces that shape connection. It is not an algorithm or a prediction tool. It is a map: a clear way
to understand why some people feel magnetic, why some relationships deepen naturally, and why others fade.
Six simple forces that explain why some connections feel effortless – and why others never quite take off.
S Similarity
Shared worlds, shared language
We are most drawn to people who share pieces of our world: values, humour, interests, and the way we see life.
Similarity builds the foundation for long term compatibility.
F Familiarity
Comfort that builds over time
The more we encounter someone in small, repeated, everyday moments, the more comfortable and trusting they feel.
Familiarity is the quiet builder of emotional safety.
P Proximity
When our paths actually cross
Connection grows when our worlds overlap. Being physically close, sharing social circles, or simply showing up
regularly online all increase the chance for meaningful interaction.
R Reciprocity
The feeling of being chosen back
The multiplier. Attraction deepens when we feel genuinely liked back. When someone chooses us, we naturally lean
closer.
C Chemistry
That hard-to-name spark
The intuitive spark: timing, energy, eye contact, body language, and the quiet biological signals we are not
consciously aware of. Chemistry is what makes connection feel alive.
X Interference
Everything that gets in the way
Interference is the friction: mismatched intentions, emotional baggage, timing, distance, or outside pressures.
The higher the X, the harder it is for attraction to turn into something real.